Breakup Letters
Love takes courage and there's always a risk of a breakup.
Love takes courage and there's always a risk of a breakup.
I met and fell in love with a guy who I later found out was involved with someone else. I continued the relationship despite him being taken. He says he loves me, yet is staying with her. Saying that he feels obligated to. Even though he’s very unhappy. I feel broken without him. When she found o...
Dear Ex-Husband, I never felt what letting go was like until I felt you and me both went our separate ways. Though it won't be wrong to say that it was a scary feeling initially, it was also clear that the things our relationship was going through were hard to carry on with. People do say that it...
A, I wish words were magic, and maybe some part of me does if I'm writing this, whether it works or not well, that's another problem. Does a spell always work? Can it turn into a curse? Anyway... let's hope this letter turns into a healing spell, even though you won't know this is also for you. M...
You have no idea the damage you’ve done on my heart, the number you’ve done on my head. You don’t understand I love you like I’m in love with you. As bad as it is, as pathetic as it sounds, I would likely take you back right now. After everything you’ve done to me I still love you. Sick and twist...
Dear Former Friend, I’m still thinking, and let’s face it, laughing, about the “scathing tell off“ you felt compelled to post the other day. I actually screen-shot it and sent it to a few of your former and my continued friends, and on reflection of conversations with them, I guess I owe you an a...
To My Husband, Before your second Father’s Day and on our anniversary weekend, Honestly, I can’t even figure out how to start this letter, much less when I’m going to end up writing by the end. The last year and nobody could’ve predicted but you know in a way the emotional dynamics are not far of...
Dear Ex Best Friend, I think about you a lot. We haven’t spoken in 3 to 4 years now and that still bothers me. I met you in the US and ever since then we were like Cheech and Chong lol. I never wanted to leave your side. I’m about to turn 31, and since our “falling out,“ my heart still hurts over...
My Dear Ex-Boyfriend Who Showed Me Love, My dear. I don’t know how you feel. But was this all just a game? A bet between you and your friends? Was I really yours? I’m sorry for the inappropriate things I said. I should’ve watched my tongue. I was mad at you. Mad at me. How could I fall in love so...
Dear Heartbreaker, When we first met you barely even made an impression on me but we talked more after that and the next time I saw you were totally different. There was an instant attraction and overall sense of comfort and safety with you that I had never before experienced with anyone else. I ...
To My Ex Who Is A Trader, You abused me more than you will admit to yourself ever. You physically accosted me multiple times and kept me down mentally. I feel like I had Stockholm syndrome, where I fell in love with the idea of who I met and couldn't bring myself to properly leave. You held my wi...
EX LOVER, BEFORE YOU LEFT TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD YOU HAD TOLD ME MULTIPLE TIMES THAT YOUR ARMS WOULD BE OPEN FOR ME WHEN I WAS READY. AND THAT WAS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME BECAUSE I WAS GOING THROUGH SO MUCH STRESS AND ANXIETY. IT WAS MY LIGHT. IT WAS THE BIGGEST REASON I WORKED SO HARD TO ...
To My Darling Ex, It has now been four months since you completely broke my heart. Not a day goes by I don’t think of you and wonder what you’re doing and do you think of me? I just wish I knew what I did so wrong? And how you can tell me you love me in the most romantic of ways, only to turn aro...
Dear Ex, I hope you’re doing well. I’m writing you to inform you that you have been on my mind for a while. And I want to know how you are. I cannot help but reminisce about old times and I have been thinking about you a lot as of late. You’ve been on my mind ever since you showed up at my friend...
Dear Ex-Girlfriend, not a month goes by that I don’t think about the way things ended. That day in February was bitter cold when you called me. I was in bed, hungover, and just feeling lousy about myself and life. I hated who I had become at that point. I was drinking again every day, and you wer...
Dear Once Fiancé, I hope this letter finds you well. Isn’t that how all correspondence between people who haven’t spoken in a while is supposed to start out? I guess I don’t though. Because what kind of person invites her ex-fiancé to their wedding? Dear Fiancé, I hope this letter finds you ill. ...
Ex-Boyfriend, I still think about you a lot. I wish that I didn't think about you at all. You really hurt me. But I still wonder about you a lot. I wonder what you're up to, I wonder if you're still at that same job. I wonder who you're friends with anymore. I wonder if you are dating anyone. I w...
Dear you, I don't think you know how much you hurt me. But even more, I don't think you care. I have spent months trying to wrap my mind around everything that has happened. How could you just leave like that? And expect me to be okay with it? Did you ever stop for a second to think that sendi...
Dear Past Lover, I didn't know what I was missing in my life until I met you. You taught me how to love, how amazing life was, and how beautiful I was, though I didn't know. The day I met you was a really good one. You came to me, speaking a language I didn't talk at all, making my cheeks red...
How are you doing? I hope you are fine. I'm thinking about you all the time. Not a day passes by without you in my mind. But, I'm not worried sick about you like I used to anymore, because I know you can take care of yourself, and because you got a new man taking care of you now, right? I wonder ...
My Dear Dad, You are the person I admire most in the world. When Mom left us at an early age, you were the one who took care of me and you were both father and mother to me. I have hurt you many times, but you have never given up your responsibility. The biggest mistake I made is my life was t...
Dear First Love, I wanted to apologize, so I’m doing so now. This letter that you’ll never receive, an apology for what I did. Although I should talk to you, I won’t, because, if I hurt you, you did hurt me more. However, this is not a letter about what you did or what you did not, but about y...
Dear Ex Love My whole life I was concerned with being a good person land someone that my family could be proud of I grew up seeing my sister getting hurt by her boyfriends and my mom crying because of the inconsideration of my father, I honestly believed if I worked hard enough and became a docto...
To my soon-to-be ex-husband, When we stood in front of our friends and family to pledge our love to each other, I never thought this is where we would end up! But the truth is, we had problems that started not long after we started dating. From the beginning, and probably for a long time before m...
TO THE PERSON FROM MY PAST - I still think about you. I still dream about you. I do not know why. and I honestly cannot understand it is just a bit unusual for me to experience such things when I should already be over you by now. I know I am and I know we both have already moved on - We do not t...
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To the man who stole my heart then broke it, Do you have any idea how much you have hurt me? Even now, years later I find myself still thinking of your day and night. I hate that you haunt my every waking moment as well as my dreams, you were perfect in my eyes, you became Unforgettable to me, Ev...
I know this letter has been a long time coming but I feel it is very important that I finally put down these words and get them to you. I no longer wish to but around the bush. We have grown apart. Were we ever really to close? Sare, we briefly shared the intersecting Circus of drinking and video...
Dear Husband, I hope to divorce you as soon as possible. I am so happy that you are physically out of my life and will be even happier when you are legally out of my (and “our” son’s) life as well. I have never met anyone as manipulative as you. You blame it all on drugs but you are just a so...
Dear Idiot – Well things have finally caught up with you. You can stop the pity party you have been trying to suck me into. You were out of my life for good now. You have a week to pick up the items stored in my garage or they will be put out for trash pick up. Are you surprised? Don't be. Yo...
To The Man I thought I'd Marry, I see you. I see you there with her, on the street outside the bar after closing, faces pressed together, oblivious to the world. I see you secretly checking your phone when you think I'm not looking and smiling to yourself. I see you lock your iPad now - that's...
Dear Precious Angel, I've missed you so much. Since the day you left my heart has been crushed in a thousand pieces. I loved you so much. Your smile, your heart, your angel attitude. I want to be with you again. I want to treat you like you deserve this time. I want to hold your hand and kiss you...
To my former girlfriend of 10 years, I'm writing this letter to let you know why I am going "No Contact" with you during this Covid-19 pandemic. You discarded me ten months ago after being together for 10 years. At the snap of your fingers, you were done with me and moved out. Up until the pandem...
TO THE WOMAN I LOST, I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WHERE MY FEELINGS FOR YOU CURRENTLY STAND. I AM STILL MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. WHEN THINK ABOUT YOU AND HOW I ENDED UP HURTING YOU, MY HEARTACHES. WHILE I'M CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS VERY FRUITFUL, I STILL CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU. BURDE...
Dear Honeypie, It has been four months since we ended things between us. Truth be told, I miss you. I still can't figure out how things went south between us. I was still thinking of how to plan for our wedding, sometime in August. The month of March, April, and May has never been the same, most...
DEAR LOVELY PERSON, MEETING YOU HAS BEEN AN EXCITING TIME IN MY LIFE. I WAS LOST IN WHAT LOVE WAS. I WAS SURROUNDED BY PEOPLE WHO ALTHOUGH I ALREADY HAD A CONNECTION WITH, WAS NOTHING COMPARED TO WHAT WE HAVE. THE BEGINNING WAS LIKE I WAS ON CLOUD NINE, FLOATING IN HEARTS AND SUGAR. WE LAUGHED, T...
Dear Love, I know it has been a year since we last spoke but I still think of you every day. I think every day about how things could have been different so that we could have stayed together. I always think about the good times that we had, but then it always goes back to the time it went downhi...
To the love of my life, from your first love, I wanted to shake off these feelings and an infinite number of times because of pride. I decided I cannot continue to let my pride control me. First off, I am so sorry for treating you in any way accept what you deserved. So many times I projected my ...
To the One That Got Away, You're married now and have a kid. And I'm truly happy for you, I am. Because deep down I know we wouldn't have worked. Despite having passion, despite loving each other, despite "getting each other," despite making each other laugh, there was always something missing. S...
To The Lover Who Hurt Me, It's been almost a week since we've last spoke. The last conversation we had was you telling me that you did not want a relationship with me. You told me I deserved better and that you could not give me what I was looking for. That cut me deep. How could you say this...
Dear, It is almost a month since we broke up. I am so lonely, that I can barely cope. As one needs happiness so do I still need you in my heart. The whole break up wasn't my idea and up till this moment I can barely understand why you chose to end things when I was just preparing to propose t...
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