“My Dear Husband, Today is the first time in my life that I am writing a letter to you.…”

My Dear Husband, Today is the first time in my life that I am writing a letter to you. And I am surprised that I have never written to you in my life. I think. I should have done it earlier. We have been married for the last 15 years, and it was an arranged marriage. Overall it’s a good companionship, we never fight badly and have very little clashes with each other. But at the same time we also have little romantic moments and gestures. I wish we had some more romantic moments to remember today. By this letter, I want to confess to you that I always wanted to have a love marriage. And it remains in my heart that ours is not a love marriage. So whenever a conflict happens between us I use to remind myself that “ he is not your soulmate, so compromise.” This is my way to let go of things and move ahead. But now I realize that there is no soulmate in this world. I have not met anyone who is so perfect that no dispute arises in a relationship. We have to compromise and make adjustments for a relationship. I am sure you must have your side of the story. Please write to me about your views for our relationship. -Your Wife