“Dear, When I found out that you my husband of 8 years, had been viewing pornography for …”

Read text version arrow icon

Dear, When I found out that you my husband of 8 years, had been viewing pornography for many years, it devastated me. You lied to me numerous times over the years when I asked you if you looked at it. When you couldn't perform sexually, I asked you again, and you could always lie and say no. This hurts me to my core. My self – esteem has been crushed. My love for you, as you know, is very strong. And I know how much you love me. I know you say you were ashamed to tell me, and feared I would divorce you, but I wish you could've said something. I could've helped you overcome your sexual addiction. I am so grateful that it was exposed because you were able to get the help and counseling that you need. After dedicating your life to the Lord, I have seen immense changes in you. You are a new man. You went from being a cold husband, to one of the most loving and caring people I know, since then. I am grateful to God and to your counselors for helping you heal. I feel like we are newlyweds again, and cannot wait to see where our marriage will go from here. Please know that if this ever happens again, I am not sure if my heart could take it. But my prayers are that you continue to go to your counseling and continue seeking God and his healing. I cannot imagine my life without you in it, and I don't want to either. Love - Me

Handwritten Letter

Explore Other Letters

Join today and take the first step in opening up and gaining greater understanding and compassion for yourself and others.

Join for free
Learn about the projectarrow icon

Writing Letter Illustration

You've read 1/3 letters without an account.

Sign up for unlimited accessarrow icon